MHR EP 2633 “Not so Fast”

What is the one thing that will ruin your eternity with your loved one? Jeannette’s message this week reminds us that being in a hurry to join your loved one in Heaven in not the answer. Listen as she details why, and as she reminds us, “Don't stop living because someone you love has passed. Live fully because of the love you share, and continue your journey together.” ©

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What is the one thing that will ruin your eternity with your loved one?

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What if I told you that there's more to it? That there are benefits and resources from heaven that are available to help you in this life, and you've never heard about them. Are you curious? Well, join Gordon Merrill as he digs deeper into making heaven real in this life.

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Welcome back to Making Heaven Real as we present messages from Jeanette. This time, Jeanette addresses the statement that you've probably heard on this episode or on this podcast several times previously. The statement is don't do anything to end your life early because it will ruin our eternity together. If you follow Making Heaven Real much at all, you've heard me mention this several times. This was a direct message from Jeanette two weeks to the day after she passed. We were extremely close, in ways not yet fully discussed on making heaven real, but it may be the topic of conversation on a future episode. But for now, she was just very insistent that I get this message very soon after her passing. Why? Well, let's listen to her message now and how she sheds light on this urgent statement from March 2024. The last couple of weeks she told us to live out loud, explore, seek adventure, and live fully. But the question we all have still on earth here on earth is how do we live to the fullest while still grieving? She says, the more that you stand up, the more you drink water, the more you take your vitamins, you stretch, exercise, and go on with your day, you will get little glimpses every day that God brings to you. Little glimpse of joy, little glimpse of understanding. Understanding that you're protected. And feelings have never, that you are never alone. You will always have opportunities to grow and stretch. There will be time for everybody that grieves if they follow the pathway of assuring that they're taking care of yourself, that you will be able to feel life fully and understand that you're living life not only for yourself, but for the ones that you grieve for. If you're moving forward, it's not detrimental to the memory of whomever, but that you're doing this with the person you're remembering. Those of you who follow Making Heaven Real have heard me reference a message Jeanette gave me shortly after her passing. Don't do anything to end your life early because it will ruin our eternity. At that time, I knew this message was important because of how strongly she impressed it upon me and how strongly she worked at making sure I got that message very quickly. But even then I don't full didn't fully understand all that she meant by it. Now, through her recent message, I believe she's helping us understand the deeper meaning of these words. Over the last few weeks, Jed Tanet has encouraged us to live fully, seek adventure, embrace life. Well that raises an important question. How do we do this? How do we go on and not handle or deal with the feelings of loss? What struck me most about her message is that the living fully is not a betrayal of the person we miss. Moving forward does not mean leaving them behind. Instead, we continue the journey with them. According to Jeanette, we are living not only for ourselves, but also for those we love and grieve. Every time we choose life, growth, hope, and healing, we honor the love we shared, and we carry that love into the next chapter of our lives. The message I hear from Jeanette is clear. Don't stop living because someone you love has passed. Live fully because the love you share and continue the journey together. So, Jeanette, what has happened when someone ends their life too soon? She says, when it's not your time, what we're illustrating here isn't as rosy as Gordon has just shared. But if a person was to take their life before the moment that the Spirit has allotted, it does take time to go through sadness, tears, fears, regret. We're not saying that you're going to be in a dark space forever, but it's not as easy as it sounds. That dark place can be very lonely from what we in heaven understand, and we pray for them. But we know that they're there for a reason, and it will take time for them to release the energy and for them to understand why their choices mattered. It's absolutely opposite of what God wants. God gave us life for a reason, for us to grow and experience, learn, share, care. She says, when you extinguish the light early, you didn't give the earthly realm all the cooperation you were supposed to share. Remember last week when she said only you can share the light that you hold? Here she's saying, if you extinguish that light early, you've cheated Earth from something God intended. So, Jeanette, how does this ruin us for eternity? She says, if you ended your life early, you would go into this dark place, and it could take us a long time to find each other again when you emerge. By then your frequencies would be different. We would no longer match frequency. And that would change our whole outlook of our journey for maybe thousands of years. Janet explains that moving forward through grief is not leaving a loved one behind. It's carrying them with you into this new chapter. Every time you choose hope over despair, participating in life, care for others, and embrace new experiences, we honor the love we shared with them. Those who love you in heaven do not want you to stop your journey. They want you to continue growing, continue healing, continue exploring, and continue becoming all that God created you to be. Through that growth, your light becomes brighter. And here's the key your frequency becomes stronger. How does that help? Because then your eternal connections deepen. So when grief whispers that life no longer matters, remember this truth. Your frequency is still being written, your stir story is still unfolding, your purpose is still active, and every day you choose to live fully, you are participating in the beautiful expansion of your soul and preserving the harmony of your connections that will last forever. I think the one thing that meant the most to me when she came through with that message, even way back in early 2024, a lot of what I know now and a lot of what I have shared with you on this podcast was things that were new to me to learn over that time period. But the thing that meant the most to me in that one statement early on, if it's going to take thousands of years after the time spent in the dark zone to recover, and then after that takes thousands of years for you to find your loved one, and then you may not even connect properly because you're on a different frequency by then. How much time do you actually have left on this earth in this lifetime? None of us will be here for a thousand years. So where can you come up with any justification for worth to end your life early, to enter into a dark zone, emerge on a different frequency, take thousands of years to find each other, and then probably still not be on a compatible frequency when you're done. Nothing about what's left in your life's plan in this human suit is bad enough for you to end it early and jeopardize your future. Think of this mantra during the next week. Every day I live, learn, love, and grow. I strengthen my frequency. My journey matters, my purpose matters, and my connection to those I love grows stronger through the life I live fully. So to close this on kind of a light note, those of you who follow Making Heaven Real, I'm sure have heard me mention several times that Jeanette was an attorney. So I asked her to put on her attorney hat and close out the episode with a closing argument. And here's what she had to say. So, ladies and gentlemen, let the record show this. Your life is the evidence, your joy is the testimony, and your willingness to live fully is the verdict. Which makes heaven real. Case closed.

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