MHR EP 2619 - The Grief Gate©

Have you ever considered your grief as a doorway? Understanding a bit of the process that grief has on your body, changing the doorway through which you communicate with your spirits, and how Spirit works to refine their abilities to communicate with you; helps you “learn the language of Spirit”. “The Grief Gate – changes the doorway to communication through incorporating more than just the words by integrating it with symbolism, emotions, and presence” ©  #spiritcommunication #afterlifecommunication #signsfromspirit 

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Have you considered your grief as an open door? What if I told you that there's more to it? That there are benefits and reinforces from heaven that are available to help you in this life, and you've never heard about it. Are you curious? Well, join Gordon Merrill as he digs deeper into making heaven real in this life.

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Welcome back to Making Heaven Real. About the time Halloween approaches every year, there seems to be a lot of discussion on the internet about the veil getting thinner between us and the other side. Well, metaphysically, there are any number of things referred to as triggers that can help thin that veil. Some are thought to occur naturally between Mother Earth and using specific energetic shifts in nature, like late October, early May. Others deal with more of a personal spiritual readiness and clarity. Grief is widely believed to thin the veil, creating a heightened sacred space where the boundary between physical and spiritual becomes somewhat permeable. This thinning is particularly noticed during times of intense loss. That last statement actually came from a church. Remember back in episode 2549 when we discussed the physiological effects on the body from intense grief following a devastating loss. One medium actually told me that she thinks that chemical process just helps us to be still for a while, which allows the spirit to orient and collect their spirit cognizance on the other side. Kind of makes sense. But Jane's still here. Even if A and B knew each other in multiple lifetimes before, this situation's different. Because now for the first time, one of these spirits has to figure out how to communicate with and talk to Spirit B, who is actually Jane on this human experience. Doesn't mean that it's hard to do, it doesn't mean that it's against their abilities. Just means a new situation. Like you finding yourself in a new office for the first time. When we discussed the physiological effects and how that works against you on the body, and how that may just be nothing more than the time to let you be still for a while while the spirit is catching on. Part of that also is to so that we're not in a big hurry to keep pushing them for some kind of communication, which kind of hurts their process to getting acclimated. And I can tell you about that here in a little bit. Then little by little we find ways to open that door. Don't even try looking at it, looking it up for Google because when you do, you're gonna find something that's completely different than what Heaven calls the griefgate. Grief does not block spirit. Grief changes the doorway. Now part of this you've already heard, but I think the way I'm presenting it this time gives a little bit more clarity to what I'm talking about. When my wife passed a little over two years ago, nobody knew why. From the medical standpoint, the hospital, the doctor, everyone that was in the room during the procedure, nobody had any understanding as to why she passed. The hospital still has it listed on her medical record as death by unknown origin. I even went and took on the extra expense of having a private autopsy done to try and find out what was going on because the medical training in me as a former paramedic just could not let it rest. And the autopsy could not find a reason either. What transpired after that is several weeks of this human experience for this spirit in some very intense emotions, some intense concerns, and probably some thing, thoughts, and processes that may have been a little dark as well. I attempted to try and contact her through our medium friend two weeks after she passed. First thing out of the mouth of the medium was normally this is 60 to 90 days before we can contact these people because they're over there building their strengths. There's the orientation we were talking about. But she said, Well, let me try and connect, and I'll call you back either way and let you know. Thirty seconds later, the phone rings and it's her. And she is amazed at the power with which she's coming through. Specifically because there was an urgent need to communicate two or three things on my behalf. Found out later that that wasn't all within her ability. She was too new to the office. Yeah, may not have had the uh direct um in her office messaging application ready to go on on her behalf. But as urgent as it was, and as needed as that information was, she pulled heavenly equity and pulled power from other resources to help her communicate at that time. Now, that communication obviously was through a medium. It wasn't directly to me, because neither she was ready nor I. I was still in that physiological state. I was having some concerns and lots of questions, probably mostly because of that physiological state. But I wasn't ready. I hadn't found the new doorway that grief opened up. And she wasn't ready either because she wasn't acclimated to the new office yet. But because of the urgent need, heaven came together and made that communication happen. So when we're talking about how the physiological kind of puts us on hold for a little while, we've talked about how in our grief toolkit not to overwhelm somebody who's grieving, not to talk to them a lot about what they should do or shouldn't do or any of that, because quite honestly, for the first couple days they won't remember any of it. And that's where, like I said, the medium said the chemical process just help us helps us to be still for a while. Gives us a chance to work on our responses. Get over the numbness that we have after that devastating loss. And get to the point where we're actually understanding communication again and processing cognitive skills again. And by that time, more than likely, spirit has been able to work on the communication. I think the thing that's kind of interesting about this is I I read that every communication now between spirit and the spirit who's here still on the earthly experience has its own shape. Sounds kind of interesting, but what it turns into is even though the message still comes through, it kind of integrates through presence, emotions, symbolism, and the message and shape kind of come together to form the communication. As grieving spirits and grieving people here on earth still in our human experience, when we get to where we can understand that, then it makes it easier for us to not try and force ourselves ahead or skip ahead and try and go all the way to the end of the final message right off the bat. This allows us to understand the communication process and work on it, be thankful for it, and allow the process to happen. It's actually kind of like learning a new language. Griefgate changes the doorway to communication through incorporating more than just words, by integration integrating the communication with symbolism, emotions, and presence. Let me say that one more time. The grief gate changes the doorway to communication through incorporating more than just words, by integrating those words with symbolism, emotions, and presence. Compare that to how you communicate with people now. Text messages. Phone in person. For spirit communication, text messages would be basically just words that you hear. The phone communication would be when you start feeling emotions from them. And the in-person communication would be similar to feeling their presence, their feelings and their emotions during the communication. Understanding a bit of the process that grief has on our body. How it changes the doorway through which communications with our spirits occur. And how they work to refine their abilities to communicate with us. Helps us to learn the language of spirit. And that definitely makes heaven real in your life.

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